Showing posts with label half friend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label half friend. Show all posts

Monday, September 23, 2013

She called S a FLY

I know I know, it has been longer than it should be for an update.. but here we are. UPDATING

Really I just wanted to write down what M said tonight. Silly little girl

EC and S are girls in her class.



M:  EC really is mean
me: oh, really? Why?
M: she called S a fly
at this moment I stared at her waiting.. waiting for their to be more.. but there wasn't
me: a fly? Like as in the bug?
M: YES! AND she told S that she is 5 but really she is 6
me: oh..
M: AND, she told S that she deserved it
me: oh no, what did EC do?
M: she told me
me: told you? Why didn't she go to the choices wheel (the wheel post)
M: we were at lunch
me: oh, what did you do?
M: I told EC that she was being a little bit mean.
me: hum.. well, that is nice of you to stick up for S
M: yea, I mean.. right now EC is my half friend but if she keeps being mean then she wont be my friend at all


a fly huh? I'd like to be a fly.. a fly on the wall to hear my child's conversations


Side note: she asked for a drink with dinner. When I handed her water, she looked at me crazy and said.  "Umm Mom, I was hoping for some lime juice. I love lime juice"  yes, she means lime juice out of a lime or the bottles kind you cook with. Crazy kid. and NO I didn't get her a glass of lime juice



Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Half Friends

The first day chica told me about a boy she was friends with. She tells me that this boy was mean to another little girl (M) and yelled at her. After telling me the story, she states that she isn't going to be his friend because he is mean. I explained to her that they could still be friends but maybe she needs to kindly tell him to be nicer to people. That was on a Friday. Monday afternoon rolls around and we talk about her day as usual. In the middle of the conversation she is going on and on about her day and she says

"you know my half friend"
me: your what?
chica: my half friend.. you know, the boy that was mean to M
me: umm, yea. Is that what you call him? Your half friend?
chica: yea, because he is mean

The conversation went on longer but that is all I wanted to really talk about. Her "half friend" oh my goodness. How my child's brain works just simply amazes me. I get it though. She is half his friend becuase she is unsure if she wants to be his friend because he is mean to others. GO HER. I give her props.. she took my advice, stayed friends with him, but is going by her own judgement on if they should be friends. I take it her opinion is half right now?.?.




UPDATE:  chica and her half friend are no longer friends. "he yells at other kids all the time"

Well, good choice.. lets move on and find kinder friends!


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